Tuesday, December 8, 2009
In the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit. Amen. Good morning. Fr. Jim here with you this morning to help us focus our attention on preparing for the Child Jesus Christ to come and live with us in our hearts. Today is an important step in preparation because it will become for us the stepping stone to asking Jesus to fill our hearts with His gifts of faith, hope and love.
Jesus knows you from your mother’s womb, and He knows what will bring great joy and true happiness. Even the prophets knew that transforming our lives through prayer is a vital step in deepening our relationship with Jesus. Our preparation to welcome the Child Jesus into our hearts is through and in the mystery of the word prayer. What is prayer? How can this be an important component of our relationship with Jesus? What should we pray for?
Prayer in a word is “relationship.” It is time spent deepening our wisdom, knowledge and love of Jesus so that we can and will follow Him where ever he leads us. The more we engage in prayer, the more we see the awesome presence of God in every thought, word and action of our lives. We know some of the famous prayers that draw us to God: The Our Father, the Glory Be, and the Prayer before Meals. These prayers help us to focus on our needs, wants, and desires to give thanks to God for all the blessings He gives us.
While these prayers are great and call to mind our desire to know, love and serve God, they are not enough for us. We desire, we want and we believe in the need to have a friendship and personal relationship with God. The more we pray, the more we grow in holiness and grace. The more we speak to God in word and in silence, the deeper our relationship and friendship grows. It is the same way in any relationship. We need to keep it engaged in order to move beyond the surface level to a heartfelt connection.
This heartfelt connection takes daily practice and desire, and must be sustained through our diligence and discipline of taking time to pray in order to welcome Christ Jesus into our hearts. Sacred Scripture gives us countless stories of prayer that are joyful, sad, fearful, happy, questioning, wondering, discerning and many other themes which give us comfort and aid. We are preparing for Christ to come into our world, our lives, and our hearts, why not begin to pray for grace and wisdom to be present in our hearts?
Let us begin a new day in prayer, preparing our hearts for Christ to enter. The following method is only one way of many, but for starters, it is the easiest way to open our minds and hearts and engage with God in conversation. Are you ready?
First, being quiet is so important. Find a comfortable place to sit and listen intently to how you breathe. Slow your pace of breathing down by concentrating on inhaling and exhaling. Let your breathing be a great source of calmness in your life. Next, speak to God from your heart and tell Him that you love Him. Tell Him you are present to Him in these moments of silence. After saying I love you, simply clear your mind of any thoughts and let God grace you with His presence and love.
When you have tried to hear God love you—and this is very hard to do and takes many days of practice—begin to share your life with God. Tell Him all that is going on—the good, the bad, and the ugly. Speak to Him as if He is your best friend. Hold nothing back. He already knows this, and sometimes, when we share our hearts with another person and friend, we connect with them, and in our vulnerability, we develop a deep level of trust in them.
Another fantastic way to deepen our relationship with God is to focus on a passage in Sacred Scripture. Read for example in Matthew 14:22-33 about Jesus calling Peter to walk on the water toward Him, and see how Peter walks a little ways only to be afraid because of the wind and the storm, and he starts to sink into the water. He cries out to Jesus, and Jesus rescues him, chiding him for having little faith. Picture this scene in your mind. Identify with any and all the characters of the story. Who inspires you? Whom do you see yourself as in this story? Can there be similarities in this story with what is happening in your life? How can we connect with the living Scripture and make it appear real to us?
Another wonderful story that fits well with Advent is the whole story of Mary and Joseph. Take their journey to Bethlehem. We know this story because we celebrate this story every Christmas—which we are preparing for. Yet do we really know the story? Can we identify with Mary all the feelings she is embracing as she goes to a foreign land? What about Joseph, her husband, do we know what it feels like to love and care for a spouse who is with child? How does this Holy Family remind us of our families? How are we called to deepen our trust and love in God as Mary and Joseph did?
When we place ourselves in the scene, as an observer, or as a participant, suddenly the experience comes alive and floods our heart with new insights into the life of Jesus and ours and how we can connect with Him and grow in a relationship with Him. In this process, we discover how well we are succeeding in growing with God. We can also see that we need more time to develop the friendship with God we desire. Our prayer with God cannot be just once a week, or once a year. This relationship requires that we turn to God and Jesus and the Holy Spirit daily in order to gain wisdom and knowledge. Our relationship with the Trinity needs our cooperation with His grace to experience a trust, a love, a conversion of our hearts to turn from the temporal world of material things, hatred, bigotry, injustice and pain. When we are ready to engage in a relationship with God through prayer, we are ready to be awed by how gentle, loving and merciful He is. We are amazed at what we can share with Him: our very selves because He knows us so well.
Part of our prayer to God, as we prepare to welcome the Child Jesus into our hearts can be a prayer of petition. This petition can be simply asking for a particular grace to help in a current situation we are in. It can also be a petition for wisdom, love, understanding, courage, fear of God, counsel, right judgment, healing or countless other needs we express to Him.
Our prayer time, our relationship with God who loves us and will come among us as a Child, should not be taken for granted or ignored. This is why it is so important to begin today to nurture our relationship with God through prayer. This is why we need to prepare our hearts and have them ready for Christ to enter and live in our lives. In doing so, we grow deeper in love with God; we place our lives in His hand, and trust He will lead us where He wants us to go.
As we begin this Advent Season of preparing our hearts through prayer, what gifts can we ask God for? What spiritual gifts do we need in order to grow in holiness? Tune in tomorrow as we continue our journey preparing for Christ to enter our hearts.
Let us pray: Good and gracious God, fill our hearts with a desire to be in a relationship with you in prayer. Help us to love, trust and believe in your presence with us. Prepare our hearts to pray with fervor for the gift of your Son to enter into our lives. Fill our hearts so we grow in holiness and love. Hear these prayers we present to you today and answer them according to Your will. We ask this through Jesus, your Son, who lives and reigns forever and ever. Amen. May Almighty God Bless You: In the name of the Father, and of Son and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.